An often-overlooked leadership skill is creating space to think, prioritize, and make sound decisions. For many, especially those who value supporting others, calendars often reflect others’ needs rather than their own.
I admit this does not come naturally to me. I find it difficult to say no when asked for my time. My emotional connection to others often outweighs logic, so unless I face a strict deadline, I tend to say yes.
However, I have learned that effective leadership is not possible without space in your calendar.
When every hour is filled, you lose the opportunity for strategic thinking, creativity, and reflection—qualities essential to strong leadership.
The Boundary That Changed Everything
A single change improved my work-life balance: I now schedule weekend appointments only once a month. This boundary has given me time to think, rest, exercise, and decompress. It reinforced that space must be intentionally created.
These practices have helped me reclaim space in a consistently full calendar (see Taking Control of Your Calendar blog post for more strategies).
Tip 1 — Create Space for Your Priorities
Identifying your priorities is only the first step; protecting time to address them is equally important.
Although I know what matters most, I still say yes too often. As a result, personal priorities like exercise or focus time are often the first to be sacrificed.
Getting Ahead of My Own Calendar
Proactively managing my schedule made a significant difference. At the start of each year, I pre-book one-on-ones, key recurring meetings, and personal focus blocks, which I only move for true emergencies. I also conduct a monthly calendar review to remove meetings that no longer add value.
Removing unnecessary commitments can free up a surprising amount of time.
Tip 2 — Block Focus Time (and Treat It Like Gold)
Donna McGeorge’s The First 2 Hours shifted how I think about my day. Her idea is simple: schedule your most important work during your peak energy periods two or three hours a week labelled “strategic time” can transform your productivity.
When Good Intentions Became Over‑Scheduling
Initially, I overcommitted by blocking daily focus time, lunch workouts, and learning sessions. I soon realized that blocking time is effective only if you consistently protect it. Otherwise, missing these blocks adds unnecessary stress.
Balance and discipline are more important than the number of scheduled blocks.
Tip 3 — Introduce Office Hours to Create Space (A Practice I’m About to Implement)
I’ve introduced office hours in my previous role and plan to introduce office hours for my team. In previous roles leading large groups, I tried to accommodate everyone individually, which quickly filled my calendar. Now, managing a diverse portfolio, I recognize the risk of repeating this pattern.
Office hours provide a structured alternative to numerous individual meetings. This approach allows team members to ask questions, share ideas, or raise concerns within a set timeframe, keeping me accessible without overextending myself.
Shift I Haven’t Implemented Yet — But Already Believe In
Although I have not fully implemented this, I already see several benefits:
- more breathing room in my calendar
- more flexibility for my team
- fewer fragmented conversations
- a healthier balance between being available and being overwhelmed
Some weeks, no one may attend, which is acceptable. I can use that time to reflect, catch up, or reconnect with colleagues. This small change can create meaningful space for both my team and myself.
Tip 4 — Delegate Meeting Attendance (and Trust the Process)
Delegation is not only about managing workload; it is also about managing time.
If your direct input is not required in a meeting, assign a delegate. With AI tools, transcripts, and effective team communication, you can remain informed without attending in person.
The real challenge is to avoid filling that freed time with additional meetings. Instead, use it for strategic work, reflection, or a moment of stillness.
The Power of a Meeting Audit
I now conduct regular meeting audits for myself and my team. Whether you delegate, combine, or remove meetings, each adjustment contributes to greater efficiency.
Final Reflection — Progress Over Perfection
There is no perfect formula for calendar balance. Some weeks I follow these practices well; other weeks are more challenging.
That is acceptable. The goal is progress, not perfection.
Each time you say “no,” you create space for focus, reflection, rest, or growth. Setting boundaries reinforces that your time is valuable.
What is one small step you can take this week to reclaim space in your calendar?
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